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DreaEvenden
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Country: United States
State: Texas
Metro: Tyler
Birthday: 3/28/1985
Gender: Female
Interests: Nerdy stuff: literature, languages, and music from old decades (30's, 40's...80's, lol). Belief and value systems. Alias and sports acro. Adoption and adoption law. Working out when I have time...
Expertise: Working a lot and then getting mad about working too much. Dealing with short-sighted, close-minded, ignorant people by shrugging off the hate and trying to see their side of things. Not knowing what to say--ever--and making things more difficult than they have to be. Playing phone tag.
Occupation: Student
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AIM:  aliasfreak18
Member Since:
1/28/2004
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| I have a new number. Here we are: 903-941-1482 P.S. Yeah I don't really blog here anymore. I don't really blog anywhere. But I do have a myspace that I never write in.  It's www.myspace.com/haveempathy I think. AND, for all you Hachie/ex-Hachie people I haven't talked to in FOREVER.... I'M GRADUATING!! Yay.  | | |
| Once upon a time
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in a land far away,
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a beautiful, independent, self-assured princess
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happened upon a frog as she sat contemplating ecological issues on the
shores of an unpolluted pond in a verdant meadow near her castle.
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The frog hopped into the princess' lap and said: " Elegant Lady, I was
once a handsome prince, until an evil witch cast a spell upon me.
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One kiss from you, however, and I will turn back into the dapper,
young
prince that I am
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and then, my sweet, we can marry
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and set up housekeeping in your castle
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with my mother,
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where you can prepare my meals,
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clean my clothes, bear my children,
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and forever feel grateful and happy doing so. "
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That night,
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as the princess dined sumptuously
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on lightly sauteed frog legs
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seasoned in a white wine
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and onion cream sauce,
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she chuckled and thought to herself:
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I don't ******* think so.
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| You Are a Blueberry Margarita |
Honestly, there's no one quite like you. And believe it or not, most people think that's a bad thing!
You're open, wild, friendly, wacky, and tons of fun. You have a big personality... and a big heart.
http://www.blogthings.com/whatflavormargaritaareyouquiz/ |
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Damn, this is accurate. I picked a few colors and it gave me this:
Andrea's Existing Situation
Needs warm companionship, but is intolerant of anything short of special consideration from those close to her. If this is not forthcoming, is liable to shut herself away from them.
Andrea's Stress Sources
Suppresses her innate enthusiasm and imaginative nature, for fear that she might be carried away by it only to find herself pursuing some will-o'-the-wisp. Feels she has been misled and abused and has withdrawn to hold herself cautiously aloof from others. Keeps a careful and critical watch to see whether motives towards her are sincere--a watchfulness which easily develops into suspicion and distrust.
Andrea's Restrained Characteristics
Distressed by the obstacles with which she is faced and is no mood for any form of activity or for further demands on her. Needs peace and quiet, and the avoidance of anything which might distress her further.
Andrea's Desired Objective
Feels too much is being asked of her and is tired out, but still wants to overcome her difficulties and establish herself despite the effect such an effort would house on her. Proud, but redesigned in her attitude. Needs recognition, security, and fewer problems.
Andrea's Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety. Desires recognition and position, but is worried about her prospects. Reacts to this by protecting at any criticism and resisting any attempt to influence her. Tries to assert herself by meticulous control of detail in an effort to strengthen her position.
Andrea's Actual Problem #2
Works to strengthen her position and bolster her self-esteem by examining her own accomplishments (and those of others) with critical appraisal and scientific discrimination. Insists on having things clear-cut and unequivocal.
Take the ColorQuiz yourself right now! | | |
| I haven't posted in a loooong time, and this one is definitely not going to compensate for that, but I feel a quick catch-up post is necessary (for myself).
I am happy and feel very lucky because...
I have the best friends on the face of the earth, no doubt. Even though all my girls are far away, I can still feel the love and we still have CRAZY times together every time we meet up!!
I'm in an uplifting, freeing, happy relationship. I can be myself, and am encouraged to do what makes me happiest, without taking away the other person's happiness. I enjoy every single minute. I think I finally understand this love thing....
I have goals. I feel like I can accomplish whatever I want if I work hard enough, and I love hard work. First on the list is law school....(and yes, I can kick the LSAT's ass without paying big bucks for a prep course like all the little rich kids, watch me!)
I have a big family. My close friends, Mamma and Papa Cox, Kirk and Melissa, the Hathcotes, the Dobsons. People that have shown me unconditional love. And yes, even my Evenden family is doing alright. Far from problem-free, but there, nonetheless.
I'm ok with not knowing. I've fought with the idea of faith for a long time, and it hasn't been a small matter in my mind. But finally I feel peaceful by leaving the door wide open instead of figuring out right now which beliefs to let in. I can consider them all without adopting them, and I don't have to conform to any specific, suburbanized, neatly packaged guidelines by associating only with people of one faith or another. Agnostic, in general.
"My religion doesn't hate / It will never turn you away / It always understands / My religion won't condemn / Always lends a healing hand / It's love / My religion is Love." (Krystal)
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